Behavior plays an integral role in shaping the character of a person. The conduct of a person to the society depends completely on their behavior. When it comes to managing and expecting a good behavior in a child, then parents need to have a positive attitude for guiding their children to have good behavior. Children of parents having positive attitude have always been found to be well behaved. To raise a well behaved child parents should always pay attention and appreciate their children on behaving properly.
It is very common with all children to behave at times in challenging ways which makes it difficult for the parents to manage the situation. To avoid such situations parents should notice and try to understand their kid’s every small behavioral change so that they can take favorable steps to behave accordingly with them.
Below here are some of the useful ways to raise Well Behaved Children:
1. Show Positive Approach;
It is very important for parents to show positive approach to children if they expect a good behavior from their children. Children always seek the attention of their parents. And if they fail to receive their expected attention then they start behaving in odd ways. It is true that nowadays because of the busy work schedule it would not be easy for parents to focus all the time on their children. But if parents work here a little smartly then they can meet such challenges efficiently. For doing so, parents should invest some quality time to their children on a regular basis to make them feel that they care about them. Try to involve yourself in those activities which your children love to do. Watching and experiencing your positive approach towards them your children will gradually learn to reciprocate the same behavior to you. Parents should also not forget to appreciate their children on behaving well instead of yelling only on their negative or odd conduct. All this will encourage kids to behave well.
2. Good Sleep for Good Behavior;
Children need good sleep to behave in the right way. If children don’t have a proper sleep then there might be a chance that they become irritated, they may fall sick also because of lack of enough sleep. Because of all these reasons they may misbehave. Being parents you should ensure that your children are having enough sleep so that it is not affecting either their health or behavior. If your children sleep well then there will be a lots of positive behavioral changes in them which can be seen in the form of better performance in schools and in sports.
3. Follow Some Routine Rules;
Parents often find it difficult to manage the daily activities of their children. They are often reluctant about performing regular activities like brushing, bathing, having their meals properly, etc. This is again the time when they might disappoint you by putting up wrong behavior. For parents it becomes really challenging task to meet all these activities without any co-operation from their children. To make all these happen smoothly there is nothing better than the option of setting some regular routine rules for your children. Involve your children in setting up the rules. While preparing the routine rules make it clear about your expectations from them. Also tell them about the consequences if they fail to meet up any of the expected rules. Let them also make some choices in setting up the rules for themselves. You can ask them about their preferences like what they want to prefer first for themselves (brushing up or dressing up?). Always welcome their suggestions and ideas in setting up such regular routine rules for your children. This will help to create a sense of responsibility in them to meet the given set of rules. You can either write up these rules or can use some bright pictures and stick all these in orders so that your children can understand what to follow next. Stick these routine rules at a place where your children can see them clearly. Gradually, following these routine rules regularly, children will learn discipline and will start behaving properly. If possible then do make some rules for yourself, this will help to encourage good behavior in children, when they will see you adhering to these rules.
4. Work Together as a Team;
Every member of a family should have some household responsibilities. Together with parents children should also share some part of household responsibilities. Children should know that not only the parents in a family are supposed to work but rather they also have to contribute in some way to their family. Parents can involve their children in small household activities like they can help their parents by tidying up their room. Parents can ask their help for preparing the dining table. These small activities can help parents to discipline their children on the right behavior. Together with the skill of behaving well, children will also learn about the importance of working together as a team.
5. Avoid Taking Up Sides;
Parents with more than one child often have to face the challenging situation of sibling rivalry. Sibling rivalry is very common with children. Parents can limit the outbreak of such situations by avoiding taking up any sides of their children. It has been found that during sibling fights and disputes parents try to control the situation by taking up either of the sides of their children. While doing so parents create a win and lose situation for their children. In this process the one who loses has to often face punishment from the parents. These further increases even more the chance of sibling rivalry. Together with this, children also form a negative impression about their parents and they may start behaving oddly. To avoid such things to happen parents should calmly talk to their children and try to understand the root cause behind such conflicts. And then together they should reach to a conclusion that will not affect either of the children. This will help children to learn behave properly during such disagreement with their brothers and sisters. And they will also learn to handle situations like this throughout their lives.
Remember when children misbehave there must be any reason behind such negative behavior. Being parents your responsibility is to find out the root cause behind such behavior of your child. And once the root cause is detected then try to work on the solutions.